Thursday, 9 October 2014
Guess who's back!
My hair texture being mostly 4a worked against this new locking venture. One month, two months, three, four........seven months and my hair would still puff into an afro after a wash. I was getting so frustrated but I kept on going, still not willing to stand down. Finally at 8 months my locs started to behave. This was after using molasses instead of gel to retwist and a little crotchet.
Things were starteing to look up. I would try to style my hair every now and then but the length was so awkward amd styling options were so limited. This really got to me. Also the fact that i couldn't wash my hair daily and that my hair seemed scarce when locked. Still, I kept going. One and a half years into it, disappointment after disappointment with my hair and hairdressers as well, I began to entertain the thought of giving up.
This was not an easy idea to toy with. I mean, I didn't even know how to do it if I wanted out. Shaving was not an option for me although my hairdressers all said that is was the only way out. I just couldn't shave!!! Honestly that was the only thing that made me stay a little longer with the locs. Deep inside my decision had been made. I searched the internet, particularly YouTube and found videos of ladies who had taken down their locs of 6yrs, some, even 10yrs! Yaaay! There was hope. I started with one just to see and sure enough after some conditioner application I was able to detangle it. My work had just began.
After that I washed my hair to remove all product then I conditioned overnight. The next day I continue what I had already started. 8 good days. That's how long it took. I was glad that I didn't make that decision any later! I expected hair loss and indeed I lost a lot of hair in the process but thank God I have lots so it's negligible. I can't explain how happy I am to have a fro. I love it. The freedom to was my hair even daily, the styling options plus my hair is fully natural. No regrets though. I am happy with my choices so far.
Moral of the post,
Yes you can undo locs
I missed posting. Glad to be back :)
Thursday, 6 June 2013
May Update
In terms of maintenance I just did scalp cleanses with warm water and sprayed some sheen afterwards. So far I am still going strong with my decision to lock my hair which has stirred up a lot of mixed reactions. I am happy and patient enough to wait for best results.
On wash days, which so far have not been consistent, I do (ACV) Apple Cider Vinegar rinses to get rid of build up which is now inevitable because of the gel I am using. It says no build up but....oh well...it is there :-/
So after braids I wanted to go for a different look. I did some styling and some Afro Kinky extentions since my locks are not long enough for styling. This is it.
Side bun,
Took this down a week and a half later, washed and retwisted my hair on my own! Hard work!!
This was my retwisting attempt.
Now rocking a Sleek synthetic wig so my hair still gets to breath When I'm in the house.<strange having short hair> 0-o
Still using Stylin dreads moulding gel because I am currently so confused about products. Lots of opinions out there but keeping it simple for now before they lock because too many products can actually slow down the locking process so less is more!!
A lock journey requires so much more patience than a normal hair journey. So far I continue to shock myself with how patient I am. Still excited and motivated!!
My hair is currently a hot mess. Due for a retwist. A professional one lol! Keep it locked for more updates.
ps; I created a new page on the blog "Events" so that y'all can know what I'm up to and I can keep you posted on the events that I attend so make sure you check it out. Thank you!!
xoxo
Wednesday, 1 May 2013
Back and keepin it LOCKED :-)
Wednesday, 3 April 2013
Finally Braided!
I am so happy that after Lord knows how many months, I finally braided my hair! I am 7 months post relaxer now and as I always say, transitioning is quite a challenge. Also wanted to take a break from combing my hair. Staying away from heat was also part of the reason I braided. I have also been getting tempted to relax my hair just to have a proper length check however, I choose to stay strong!!
So before braiding, I shampooed my hair with my clarifying shampoo. Did a protein treatment with Organics Hair Mayonnaise which left my growth so soft that I did not even follow up with a conditioner!! It is amazing!
After my wash, I blow dried my hair on cool setting and then oiled my scalp and hair with my coconut oil. That was my preparation process for braiding.
So this was last week on my wash day. Just wanted to show you my growth.
Thursday, 28 March 2013
HAIRDRESSER RANT!
Monday, 25 March 2013
Box Braid Diva!
Be blessed!!
L'oreal Garnier BB cream Launch!
The BB cream was inspired by the Hollywood famous, Asian blemish balm used after cosmetic surgery to conceal blemishes on the skin! This cream is evens skin tone, blurs imperfections, smoothes fine lines, has SPF 15 and also moisturizes the skin. All in one! The perfect cream to get you ready for the day with just one application. Y'all should try the BB cream ladies! I love that it is not greasy and it gives the skin such a good glow! BB cream has definitely earned its place in my beauty regimen. I <3 BB !!
The event was a success, with Patricia Ithau (L'oreal East Africa Managing Director) formally launching the product, Caroline Mutoko's as the MC, ladies getting mini make overs at the make up booths. Thumbs up to Africa Practice for making it a success as well.
The beautiful Caroline Mutoko in a gorgeous red maxi dress accessorized with a gold belt and yours truly :-) in a green leso peplum dress.
Have a lovely Day and stay fabulous!
Xx
Tuesday, 19 March 2013
All about hair dyes
Hey y'all! I want to talk about hair dyes in relation to overall hair health as requested by one of my readers. Most chemical hair dyes consist of two main ingredients. The ammonia dye which contains ammonia, and a developer which in most dyes is hydrogen peroxide.
These two are mixed together and applied to the hair. Not too sure about the right proportions but I guess it depends on the shade you want to achieve. Just a guess.
Ammonia literally seperates/ opens up the hair cuticle for the color to penetrate into the cuticle while the hydrogen peroxide oxidizes the hair and bleaches it for it to show the new color.
These chemicals are quite harsh on the hair and damaging especially to hair that is already relaxed or heat damaged.
Hair dyeing is also drying to the hair so if you fail to follow it up with a good and intensive care routine then your hair is bound to break a lot! Proper hair care is necessary.
Color treated hair requires more special attention when it comes to keeping it moisturized because it is drier than your average hair. Moisturizing is a must!!! My ends are color treated and I have to moisturize them so much more compared to the rest of my hair which is not as brittle and as dry. Protein treatment is also very necessary after dyeing your hair because of the stress that the hair cuticle goes through during the dyeing process.
The other important rule is you do NOT dye hair that is already dyed!! This is the ultimate mistake! Hair can only weaken futher just like relaxing hair that is already relaxed!!!
My alternative to chemical hair dyes is 100% natural henna which has my preferred shades of color and is also a natural protein treatment. It strengthens hair and reduces breakage. I follow it up with some goooooood and intense conditioning.
Henna loosens curls naturally so over time and frequent henna treatments you may start to notice this. It's like a slow, natural and long term 'relaxer' that won't get your hair bone straight or necessarily give it an relaxed look.
Natural henna gives colors within the range of red, amber and brown. Any Henna that promises anything outside this range for example black, is not natural henna. It has added chemical dyes.
For those who wish to darken their tresses naturally, consider using Amla oil or powder which is used pretty much like henna, or brahmi powder which is also said to darken hair. Famous with Indians so you can do some research on those two herbs.
Again, for chemical dyeing, be sure to give your hair the extra tlc that is needs to avoid major setbacks.
Have lovely evening :-)
Monday, 18 March 2013
Melissa Harris Perry sums it up!!
Happy Monday lovelies :-)
Tuesday, 12 March 2013
More for the newbies!!
Tuesday, 26 February 2013
Keep Calm and Detangle!
Wash days can become very frustrating when all you see a huge hair ball of after your wash! We loose most of our hair during wash days and that is why it is very important to detangle your hair properly during this process.
First and foremost you need a conditioner for effective detangling. It is better to wash your hair in the direction that you comb it therefore I wash my hair in the shower where I tilt my head backwards to have my hair go in the same direction as the water as opposed to leaning forward and having to comb my hair backwards later on. This way you spare your tresses a lot of tangling and breakage.
I apply my conditioner when my hair is 100% damp and gently massage it into my hair from roots to ends. As the water runs through my hair, I first finger comb gently to loosen the knots and then I use a wide tooth comb to detangle a little more. By the time I use the wide tooth comb my hair is usually 80% tangle free using this procedure. Remember that when you comb your hair you should comb from the ends all the way up to the roots and not vice versa. After your wash apply your leave in conditioner to keep your hair less tangled or tangle free as it dries and to prevent further breakage.
One of the first things I did when I started my hair journey was to toss my small tooth combs away. They cause a great deal of breakage. They pull and cause a lot of tension on the hair strands that eventually snap and break.
Protein treatments also cause the hair to feel a bit coarse and tangled so follow up your protein treatments with a conditioner to detangle for more manageable combing.
Have a lovely week!
Sunday, 24 February 2013
My Bantu Knot Out :)
Since yesterday was my wash day I shampooed my hair, deep conditioned and afterwards applied leave-in conditioner, and olive oil while it was still damp to seal in the moisture.I then air dried my hair and parted random sections, coiled them into the bantu knots and secured them with elastic bands.
Tied my silk head scarf, slept and undid the in the morning
The final step is to separate the strands for volume and voila!! There you have it!
Totally love bantu knot outs! Going to rock this look for some time until I learn how to do flexi rod sets.
Happy Sunday people.
xoxo!
Thursday, 21 February 2013
Heat Styling
Monday, 18 February 2013
Know Your Hair.
Ciao people!
OUT with the Split Ends!
Most of the hair issues we experience are caused by dryness and excessive heat damage and split ends are not an exception!! My last 'trim' was in December 2012 where I cut about 2 inches of my hair. Since then I admit that I relapsed to flat ironing weekly for a month :-( I guess this is the price I have to pay.
These are the different types of split ends you might spot. I think I had all those lol! :-D
Wednesday, 13 February 2013
Unwanted Product Ingredients!
Finally recovered from that horrible flu. Today I just want to share the hair product ingredients that I look out for.
When shopping for a moisturizer, I have to first confirm that it is a water based moisturizer. Many so called moisturizers have absolutely no water content so I look out for the ingredient Aqua in my hair moisturizers. Water itself is the best moisturizer. Just put some water in a spritz bottle and spray some onto your hair. Not necessarily to make it damp. Follow up by sealing in the moisture with oil.
For my normal weekly shampoo I use sulfate free shampoos. So if it has Sodium Laureth Sulfate (SLES), or Sodium Lauryl Sulfate (SLS) I only use it to clarify my hair once a month. My sulfate free shampoos are my regular shampoos because they are less harsh and therefore less drying to the hair and scalp. It is always good to clarify hair after a relaxer and monthly to remove product build up.
For oils and treatments I prefer not to use products with Mineral oil or Petrolatum which is also drying to the hair and scalp because of its coating effect on the hair shaft. That is why I only use natural oils.
Generally your products should aid in retention of moisture because dry and brittle hair BREAKS!!! Keep your hair well moisturized and not over moisturized and see how much breakage reduces. Too much moisture can cause breakage too.
Sunday, 10 February 2013
Coconut Oil
Coconut oil is my all time favorite product. I use extra virgin coconut oil. It is 100% natural and has so added chemicals. I always recommend it because of all the benefits I got from it. Coconut oil has anti-fungal properties and this helps a lot with itching and flaking. I had these problems and after using coconut oil for a short time my scalp stopped flaking. I use it to seal in my moisture as well. Coconut oil unlike many oils has the ability to be absorbed into the hair shaft. It is also a somewhat a conditioner. always left my growth feeling so soft. When massaged onto the scalp it strengthens the hair follicles therefore stimulating hair growth. Lastly, it is cheap!!! What a great deal!!
I love the shine that that coconut oil gives my hair
Coconut oil is great for skin as well. It is a great skin moisturizer. Though I don't use it on my skin though, I have read many good reviews. Coconut milk on the other hand is used as a hair conditioner.
I recommend these any day. Organic stuff is truly awesome!
Back to the FRO
I first want to thank all of you for reading my blog as new as it is. I was so honored to be featured by two Facebook pages on my hair journey progress. Got so much motivation to just keep on keeping on. I am humbled and motivated!!
My major hair journey goals are to retain as much length as possible and to fully transition to natural. I never thought that I would ever consider going back to natural hair. I got so accustomed to relaxers and I just did not want to entertain the thought of going natural. After seeing a lot of inspirational natural hair journey stories out there I realized that my hair was healthiest back in the day when it was natural. My mum, who by the way has great hair, took really good care of our hair.
Then along came bone straight relaxers and hair dyes. My hair could not handle all these things so the problems started to set in. When I realized that relaxers have done more harm than good to my hair, I decided to transition to natural.....without the big chop of course :-) . It is the best way to transition because you don't have to deal with two different hair textures. Still, I don't have the courage to do it lol.
Natural hair can be managed with the right products and hair care routine. Moisture is key for natural hair care so keep it well moisturized. Don't forget that conditioner is your best friend! Conditioner will help detangle your hair easily to minimize breakage. Co-washes really do help. A rinse out conditioner and a leave in conditioner are absolutely necessary for natural hair regimen.
Solange Knowles rocking her beautiful afro
Overall, I have learnt to appreciate the different afro textured hair types out there and see that there is alot of beauty in being natural. Whenever I spot a natural I get so excited! Lately so many women are embracing natural hair and transitioning either slowly or straight up by big chopping . Love seeing Teeny Weeny Afros (TWA's) or even the real big afros being rocked. Natural is indeed beautiful. Can't wait to fully transition and rock my own afro :-)
Have a good week ahead .
xoxo,
Pat.
Thursday, 7 February 2013
My Healthy Hair Journey

































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